How to Cope with a Rainy Wedding Day (and Learn to Dance in the Rain)

On my wedding day, the heavens opened. Not a light sprinkle that photographers call “romantic drizzle,” but a full-on, dramatic storm. We’re talking thunder, lightning, and sheets of rain —the works—falling just as we were saying our vows. I remember looking at the sky, thinking, really? The day before had been glorious. The morning of? Beaming sunshine! The day after? Sunny and calm. But as the afternoon made its appearance, when we had a beautiful garden set up and armfuls of lawn games ready? It bucketed down.🙃

At the time, I was a little gutted (but me being me, I still made the fun with it). When people told me it was good luck to have rain on your wedding day, honestly—I wanted them to do one! It didn’t feel like luck at the time. I even spent our honeymoon talking about when we’d have our vow renewal, because I was convinced I was owed gorgeous weather.

Where I come from, we put out a Child of Prague statue – here, people bury sausages in order to fend the clouds away. A lot of our family group chat was focused on getting a new Child of Prague, of a formidable enough size to do the job, which was sorted by my sister in law. The previous family one had broken when it was knocked over on the morning of my sister’s wedding on the front door step. Said sis in law presented it to me on our wedding eve – I thought she was just showing it to me to get my approval and fill me with confidence that the sun would shine; she thought she was giving it to me to put out. We discovered it still in the box on a shelf in my parents’ kitchen the day after the wedding as we took shelter from the sun outside!

But here’s the thing: looking back, that storm didn’t ruin our wedding. It made it unforgettable. The thunder added drama to our vows. The lightning made us gasp and laugh. Our guests huddled together, and there was this feeling that we were all part of something wild, unpredictable, and oddly magical. The storm became part of our story, as if nature itself was celebrating with us in its own noisy way. Perfect for us nature lovers!

Of course, at the time, I consoled myself with dreams of a sunny vow renewal (“Surely I’m owed one perfect-weather wedding after this!”). But over time, I realised that it wasn’t ruined—it was unique.

And over time, I came to realise something: it’s not the weather that defines your day, but your attitude towards it. That’s why my new motto—spoken as a flower obsessive—is:

No rain, no flowers.

Without rain, the world would be dull and dry. It’s the same with life—and weddings. Sometimes the unexpected “storms” are what bring richness and beauty.

So if you’re a couple planning your wedding, and you’re nervously checking the forecast, here’s what I want you to know:

🌧️ Make a back-up wet weather plan, but don’t obsess.

Even if you’re manifesting sunshine, have a back-up plan. Tents, marquees, indoor options, games for inside—it’s not about being pessimistic, it’s about being prepared so you’re not panicking if clouds appear. When you know you’ve got shelter and comfort sorted, the rain loses its power to cause stress.

JIt’s All About Your Attitude

You can’t control the skies, but you can control how you meet them. Rain can feel disappointing if you’ve dreamed of sunshine, but if you flip your perspective, it becomes part of the fun. Think of it as an opportunity for spontaneity. Umbrellas, wellies, puddle-splashing, and laughter can make your photos and memories even more extraordinary. Embrace your inner child!

💕 Focus on the real heart of the day.

Your guests won’t remember that the croquet set stayed in the shed. They’ll remember the way you looked at each other, the vows you spoke, and the joy of being together—rain or shine.

🌸 Embrace the unexpected.

Some of the most magical wedding moments come from the things you didn’t plan. Guests running for cover, the sound of rain on canvas, couples dashing across soggy lawns—all these become stories you’ll laugh about for years. Rainy photos are some of the most romantic you’ll ever see—umbrellas, reflections in puddles, stolen kisses under grey skies. And if you do get drenched? Well, use your imagination…

CRemember the Symbolism

As a flower obsessive, I’m going to push my motto: “No rain, no flowers.” Rain nourishes, refreshes, and gives life. In the same way, unexpected challenges on your wedding day (or in life!) can bring beauty and strength you might not see straight away.

🎶 Dance in the Rain

Literally, if you like. Because when the weather doesn’t match your plans, the best thing you can do is meet it with joy. Forget the garden games (they’ll wait for another day) and instead grab your love, your people, and your moment.

Rain didn’t ruin our wedding—it gave it extra character. And whether the skies bless you with sunshine or showers, what truly matters is the promise you make and the people you share it with. Remember this: the weather can’t touch the love at the centre of your celebration. And who knows—maybe one day you’ll be like me, joking about your vow renewal in the sunshine, but smiling at the thought that thunder and lightning chose to crash your vows.

So, to every couple out there: don’t just survive the rain. Learn to dance in it.